Evan Marc Katz

Helping smart, strong, successful women understand and connect with men since 2003
Evan Marc Katz

For many years, I was the poster child for what not to do in love.

This is particularly ironic because I come from a highly functional nuclear family; my parents were together for 30 years before my Dad died. To this day, my Mom remains a strong, opinionated woman who taught me at a young age about the importance of commitment, compromise, and unconditional love.

Date Without Heartbreak

10 Incredibly Common Mistakes Keeping You From Love

The most effective path to finding your husband lies in understanding what men are really all about. In this eBook, you’ll learn a completely different perspective about dating that will finally get you the different results you’ve been searching for.


Alas, there’s a big difference between knowing something and living it. I had to make fifteen years of dating mistakes before I finally figured out how to have a happy relationship.

What was even more ironic is that, all the while, I was a successful dating coach. Yet for all my business success, my romantic life was an absolute failure.

I never saw myself as a player–if anything, I dated frequently because I wanted to fall in love. But after 300 dates in 10 years, I had to own the fact that no matter how much I was helping others, something wasn’t working. I had to start making different decisions in love in order to create the happiness I’d always sought.

Two months later, I met someone who was nothing like the women I’d been dating. She was a West Coast Catholic conservative who was people-smart, content, and easygoing. I was an East Coast Jewish liberal who was book-smart, ambitious, and opinionated. It wasn’t an obvious fit. But every time I thought I could “do better” (read: find someone more like me) I realized that I’d never had an easier, happier, more functional and supportive relationship in my entire life.

After all of my dating and coaching experience, I’d found the most important thing in the world: a partner who saw me the way I saw myself, accepted me at my worst, and shared the same values and humor.

We were married in 2008. We’ve had two children after the age of 40. We have an unusually easy and close relationship. I am grateful for my wife every single day and never take her for granted. Unwittingly, she became my muse in teaching women how to connect with men, because whatever she does, it works.

I don’t give advice from a pedestal. I give advice from a place of experience, truth and love. I’m not concerned with being “right.” I’m only concerned that you find the relationship you deserve.

I believe firmly that the road to success is paved with failure, and since I’d failed so prolifically and ultimately found my own way, I feel uniquely qualified to help others have success in love. I believe that once you understand the realities of dating and how men think, you can make informed decisions. Finally, I believe that your informed decisions will catapult your relationships to new heights – not because you’ll suddenly have the power to change men, but because you’ll learn to accept them in full, the way you would like to be accepted yourself.

Only from here can you build a foundation for a love that lasts a lifetime.

Your friend,

Evan Marc Katz

Professional Credentials

Professional Credentials

  • Helping men and women find love since 2003
  • Over 24-million readers and thousands of coaching clients
  • Featured in The Wall St. Journal, The New York Times, Oprah Magazine, NPR, USA Today, Time Magazine, The Today Show, and many more
  • Author of four popular books on dating and relationships
  • Accomplished speaker and presenter at TEDx as well as numerous conferences, seminars, and retreats
  • Happily married with two children

Popular Articles by Evan Marc Katz

Article 1

Why He Said He Liked You And Then Disappeared

Why does a man tell you how much he likes you and how much he can’t wait to see you again, and then just disappear? Are men all jerks? Was he just trying to get into your pants? Here’s the truth you need to know:

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Article 2

3 Shocking Truths About Men Most Women Don’t Know

I’m about to tell you something you will not believe about men. In fact, it’s the OPPOSITE of what you think is true. These false beliefs are keeping you in an endless cycle of heartbreak. The good news is it can all change, when you learn these 3 truths about men and dating:

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Article 3

If Chemistry Isn’t There, Are You Settling?

You’ve met a nice guy but you just aren’t “feeling it” for him. If the chemistry isn’t there, should you keep seeing him? You don’t want to settle, so what should you do?

Men fall in love with women for different reasons than women fall in love with men.

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Article 4

What My Wife Knew About Love That Got Me To Marry Her

I went on over 300 dates before I met my wife. I had been a dating coach for 5 years before we tied the knot. What made her different than all the other women that came before? I’ll tell you:

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