Dating

You CAN Meet an Amazing Man and Fall In Love… Without Settling, Wasting Time or Having to Change Who You Are

Everything You Need to Know to Use the Most Powerful Tool Available to Meet Quality, Single Men
A Step-by-Step Guide For Finding Love Online for Women After 40

You’re about to learn the secrets to using the most powerful tool on the planet to find love, companionship and fun.

It’s a tool that nearly every woman knows about, but very few have the skills to use effectively.

It can be either a source of endless frustration, impatience and embarrassment or a way to connect with that person who will change your life forever.

If you’re single, you’ve probably already used this tool, or have at least heard a lot about it.

Bobbi Palmer

Internationally-recognized dating coach helping women over 40 finally find lasting love

What is it?

Online dating.

No, really. Online dating is the most powerful tool available to help women connect with, and get to know, men who are looking for a lovely, smart, grownup woman like you.

Right now you might be thinking, “I know online dating has been great for a lot of women, but it’s not for me!”

A Powerful Tool That Works… For Everyone But You

For you, online dating is like a giant maze with hundreds of choices…

But not many men looking for women who are like YOU…

With dozens of land mines you must negotiate after you’ve put yourself “out there” and bared your soul…

You’ve tried it, and hated it.

Maybe in your case, it’s a “necessary evil” to meet available men where you live, because you aren’t meeting any single men in any other way. Not in your neighborhood, not at work, and not through your friends and co-workers. You are surrounded by unavailable or married men in “real life” so you go online, where you know you can find single men.

The problem is, you still haven’t met your “One”, despite all the hours you’ve spent online.

Or maybe you tried your best to make it work for you, but you were so fed up with all the low-quality responses (or worse, NO responses), you gave up.

Maybe the guys who contacted you didn’t impress you at all. They were either creepy, unattractive, too old, too needy, or lived too far away.

And all the decent men—the ones with college degrees, eloquence, and good looks—passed you by.

You may have experienced spurts of luck, and went on a few first dates, but then… crickets.

The guys you liked didn’t follow up to see you again, or they disappeared, never to be heard from again.

Or they told you you’re not their “type”, and you couldn’t help but wonder if that really meant you were too old, or too fat, or maybe too smart and successful?

You suspect that some men are intimidated by your accomplishments and independence.

Regardless of WHY it happens, feeling that rejection is icky…it sucks.

Even—or especially—at our age!

Which sometimes lead you to wonder, should you even be putting yourself “out there?”

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Not to mention, you have so many questions about online dating that it makes you feel silly and out of touch.

What are the rules?

What do I say in my profile to attract the right guys?

Should I email first?

What do I say?

How do I get him to notice me and email back?

Who calls whom?

Is texting ok?

How do I get him to go faster or go slower?

How do I tell if he’s the real deal or a player, or worse, a scammer?

How do I say ‘no thanks?’

Why have so many people figured this out, found the love of their life online… and you’re just spinning your wheels?

Do Your Experiences of Online Dating Boil Down To This One Word?

When you consider your experience with online dating, all you can think of is:

No.

You look at hundreds of profiles and say NO because the men are unattractive, uninteresting, illiterate or only seem to want much younger women.

Or you take the time to write a profile your girlfriends think is awesome, post it, and… nothing happens.

No responses, no messages, no quality men contacting you.

Profile after profile, email after email, “swipe” after “swipe”, “match” after “match” you’re disappointed and, well… pissed off. So, no, no and no!

Why bother with all this work and emotional risk if you can’t make a connection with any smart, interesting, attractive men?

You’ve tried meeting them ‘organically”, through friends, clubs, coffee shops, the grocery store…

No good looking, age-appropriate, single men to be found!

So you go back online, try a new app, put up new profile photos, message a dozen more attractive men, only to start the disappointing cycle all over again!

No wonder when you think of doing online dating again, all you can think of is, “No! Not doing that again.”

Or, maybe you’ve never tried online dating, mostly because you’ve heard too many stories from friends about how difficult it is to find a good man, or how little luck they had.

I get it. I know how demoralizing it can feel. You want to find love, but the one resource you have to meet single men sucks, and doesn’t work for you.

I’ll tell you what I’ve told hundreds of women like you. Women who were once mired in the loneliness and frustration of being single in mid-life, but are now happily sharing their life with a wonderful man:

Online dating isn’t the only way to meet men, but it is the very best chance you have at finding a good man with whom to share your life.

Especially if you’re over 40.

Which is unfortunate, you think, because you haven’t had much success with it, if any.

The Reason You Haven’t Had Success Is NOT What You Think It Is

What if I told you that there’s something else going on with you and online dating that you haven’t considered—something that, if you knew about it, could change everything for you?

First, let me state the obvious: There’s nothing “wrong” with you.

And there’s nothing “wrong” with men, or online dating itself.

After working with thousands of women, both in groups and one-on-one, I can tell you that the reason you haven’t connected with a quality man online isn’t because the men who go online are all perverts, losers, scammers or jerks.

It’s not because you’re too old, too heavy, or not attractive enough.

It’s not because you’re too smart and successful and you intimidate the men who only want “arm candy.”

Or because you simply don’t have time to devote to the process, which, in your opinion, is a giant time-suck.

Your lack of success with finding quality men through online dating has everything to do with your beliefs and false assumptions:

About the process of online dating,

about men, and

and about yourself.

Let me repeat that again, because it’s so important:

Your beliefs and false assumptions are what’s causing the very problems you’re experiencing with online dating.

Once you bring those false assumptions and beliefs to light, and embrace the truth, your entire experience of online dating will change dramatically.

No more rejection, no more disappointment, and you will finally be able to connect with more quality men than you ever thought possible.

That’s why it’s critical for you to read this next section and see if any of it resonates…

These 5 Beliefs Are Destroying Your Chance of Finding Love Online and Keeping You Single Year After Year

Chances are, you think you already know why online dating isn’t for you.

Why it’s probably fabulous for people in college, for example, but not for grownup women like you.

I’ve already hinted at some possible reasons above.

You believe online dating is a waste of time… that all the men your age want to date women half your age… that it’s risky, because you might hook up with a psycho… that it’s a good way to feel terrible about yourself, because men often say mean things online.

Who needs that, right?

Mature Couple Smiling

But what if I told you that from my professional experience coaching thousands of women one-on-one and in workshops over the last ten years, NONE of those things are true.

The most common thing I hear women saying is that they believe men only want to date younger women and that is simply NOT TRUE. It’s a myth. (I explain more about this further down in this article.)

The bad experiences you’ve had with online dating are actually CAUSED by the choices you make because of your beliefs, not the REASON you formed those beliefs in the first place.

In other words, the things you believe about online dating aren’t inherently true.

It’s only because you believe they’re true that you make choices that lead you to experience these negative outcomes.

And for women over 40, this is especially challenging because you’ve probably spent YEARS entrenched in these beliefs, and maybe even finding lots of “evidence” for them (because we tend to easily find evidence for what we believe to be true—a phenomenon called confirmation bias.)

Here’s something that may surprise you:

The women who are most successful with this tool and who find the love of their life do so—not because they’re lucky—but because they didn’t start out with these beliefs.

Or, they decided to change their beliefs, and it changed the way they showed up online. Which led to them finally finding the right man, and creating a meaningful relationship with him.

So, if you haven’t had a good time or good results with online dating, or you’ve been too scared to even TRY it, you may want to ask yourself if you hold any of these 5 false beliefs / assumptions:

1 “Most men online don’t want a woman like me.”

Why do you believe this? Because you’ve read profiles where a guy states that he’s looking for a woman who’s much younger, or slimmer, more outdoors-y, athletic, or whatever.

You, however, are much closer to his age. Maybe you’re overweight. You’re more into books and movies than going to the gym. In other words, you don’t think he will like you.

So you automatically dismiss him.

But here’s the reality: For men, the idea of meeting a much younger woman who’s a size 2 who wants to date him is just a fantasy. Nothing more.

Would he say “yes” if one actually came along and wanted to date him? You betcha.

Mature Couple Hugging

Look at it this way. Women have their fantasies, too. Wouldn’t we love to meet a man who’s 5’10” or taller, who’s rich and gorgeous, too?

Probably, except you have to admit, that the chances of meeting a man that checks all those boxes are slim.

Just because a man has a silly fantasy doesn’t mean he’s not a good man.

You’re limiting your options if you automatically dismiss or reject men based on this false belief.

Look, every woman has something about herself that she think excludes her and makes her un-dateable. But here’s the beauty of dating at our age:

The men are SO much better than when we were in our 20s. They are wiser, more mature, more successful, and have learned a LOT in their life about how to treat a woman in a love relationship.

Plus, they really want a real, solid relationship. They aren’t into playing the field or hooking up as much as younger men.

Grownup men want a woman like YOU!

2 “A man should make the first move.”

There’s nothing wrong with women making the first contact. In fact, a substantial percentage of women I’ve helped find love using online dating have made the first move…and the men have taken it from there!

But more to the point, you need to know that older men don’t chase, not like men in their 20s. Older, confident, accomplished men have “been there, done that” with the chasing thing, and the potential for rejection as well as the challenge of the chase, just doesn’t turn them on the way it used to.

They’re much less into making bold, first moves than they might have been when they were younger.

It’s not that men won’t make the first move. They usually do. But if you see a man you’d like to meet and he hasn’t yet found you…why wait!

All you have to do is give him a clear, concise signal that YOU are interested, and he’s likely to take the lead from there.

Why would you want to post your profile and wait? And wait, and wait?

When you believe that a man MUST make the first move online, you are closing yourself off to so many opportunities. And that’s what using online dating is all about: creating opportunities to meet single men.

I get it, you’re old-fashioned. That’s ok. There’s a simple, subtle way to make the first contact that welcomes a man to take the lead. You won’t be chasing. You’ll be taking control of your dating life!

3 “I’ve tried online dating before. It doesn’t work for me.”

Millions upon millions of women have gone online and HAVE found love, *including myself …but you probably know the reality: the majority of people who try to use online dating end up quitting before they find love…sometimes before they even have a few good dates!

Mature Couple Standing By Trees

The reason so many women give up is simple: No one ever taught them how to use technology to meet men!

I’ve been teaching mature women how to find love for over a decade, and it’s heartbreaking to know that before they finally find me, so many spectacular women have gone through so much disappointment.

Maybe your story is different because you’ve never tried to use online dating to help you meet men. When I talk to women who’ve never been online it’s usually because they hear the STORIES from the women I just described!

But look… using online dating is not like ANYTHING you’ve ever done before, right? Well…with no training or preparation, how could anyone know how to do this WELL until they’ve had some help?

Whatever your story, it can be different now. Because NOW you’re in the right place to learn how to use the power of the internet to meet your loving lifetime partner.

4 “It’s too painful because there’s too much rejection.”

Here’s a radical thought: There’s no such thing as rejection in online connecting, because it’s NOT dating.

If you’re not “dating”, it can’t be personal. You’re taking something personally when it has nothing to do with you.

Online connecting is simply a means of meeting potential dates and men who MAY be a match — but you don’t know YET.

Not until you meet him and get to know him, in real life.

Therefore, if a man ignores your profile or your message, tells you that you’re not his type, or flat out says something nasty, who cares?

He doesn’t know you, and you don’t know him.

Many women make the mistake of “falling” for a man’s profile, which, if you think about it, is silly. It’s just a picture with a bunch of words. It’s not a real person.

Stop treating it like it’s something it’s not, and you won’t get hurt.

5 “I don’t need a man anyway. I have a great life.”

Like you, I was a competent, independent, accomplished single woman. And I had a mantra that maybe you can relate to:

Hey…I don’t NEEEED a man, I just want one!

When I was 44ish, after working with a therapist and doing some soul-searching, I finally understood what the mantra truly meant:

Mature Couple In Love
I was trying to protect myself from the awful possibility that I will never, ever be loved.

You see, when we NEED something, the pain of not getting it can be devastating. But when we just WANT it, we can be okay if we’re forced to live without it! Choosing to believe that we only want love, but don’t need love gives us a “get out of jail free” card.

If you have this underlying belief, you are probably creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. You’re subconsciously sabotaging your chances so you can say, “I told you so!”.

Believing you don’t need a man gives you an excuse not to try, or to keep repeating unsuccessful experiences and finding someone else to blame for our alone-ness.

It sends a signal to the good, available men: “Don’t waste your time. Because I don’t NEED you.” The grownup, good men you meet can sense when you’re not 100% committed or ready for an authentic connection. They won’t call again, or they won’t even respond to your profile if they sense that “I don’t need a man” vibe in it.

In a nutshell, all these false beliefs and assumptions create a self-fulfilling prophecy and a negative cycle.

The more you’re invested in a belief…

The more you are likely to find evidence that it’s true, or that you’re “right.”

You Are Literally Training Your Brain For a Negative Outcome

Let’s say you believe that men are only looking for younger women. As a human, you naturally are going to look for evidence that you’re right.

The first profile you see of a man whose preferred age range includes younger women will reinforce your “truth”, piss you off, and compel you to subconsciously LOOK for those guys because you’re compelled to find further evidence to support your belief. You stop noticing all the quality men (and there are thousands of them) that are looking for mature, relationship-minded women like you.

Mature Couple Smiling Lovingly

You overlook those men because you’re still focused on the ones whose profiles match your beliefs. Or, you don’t bother to message men who have a younger preferred age range, worrying they’d reject you.

This leads to negative outcomes, such as not meeting the kind of men that interest you, getting no responses, or meeting men who aren’t a good fit.

Then you say, “I knew it! I was right! Online dating sucks. It’s not for me, because men only want younger women.”

False beliefs → Negative Outcomes → Beliefs Confirmed → Stronger Beliefs → Even Worse Outcomes…

And so on.

This can go on for YEARS.

How do I know?

Because it happened to me!

I Was Online for 7 Years and Barely Ever Had a Date

I know what it’s like to have online dating knock the crap out of you.

Here I was, a 40-year-old woman who somehow “forgot” to have a romantic relationship (while I was busy hiding in my career). I wasn’t meeting any single men at all.

So I got online.

I spent 7 years online dating and on off before I met Larry, the man I married.

7 LONG, frustrating, lonely years.

I made all the mistakes.

I thought men only wanted younger, dumber, slimmer, “model” types and I was not that…

So I posted pictures that hid my body and compensated by letting men know that I was a smart, independent and busy businesswoman who didn’t have time for nonsense. I didn’t want them to know that secretly, I ached to have a man by my side.

I pretended to not “need” a man, so when no man wanted me I could also pretend that I didn’t care.

My inbox went empty for months at a time.

I said yes to the few users and losers who did contact me because I was desperate. No one else was interested.

Once in a while I’d fall in love with a profile and get the nerve to write these guys…the few responses I received were of the “no thanks, you’re not my type” kind. I couldn’t figure out why they didn’t see our potential! I ended up feeling so rejected and worthless.

There were years when I didn’t go on one single date. It was awful.

I finally went to see a therapist (there were no dating coaches back them) to help me figure out what I was doing that wasn’t working. She helped me realize that it wasn’t about the men being jerks or online dating sucking…it was my attitudes, beliefs and assumptions that were standing in my way.

After figuring that out, I consulted with a coach who helped me learn the practical skills that got me noticed online in a way I hadn’t been noticed before.

I learned that I had to tailor my profile and email messages to account for the fact that men in their 40s and 50s were different from the men I remember dating in high school and in my 20s and 30s.

I was way off in believing that men didn’t want a woman like me. They so did! I just had to do a much better job of showing them who I was!

Once I changed my approach and mastered the practical skills of online dating, I met Larry very quickly.

He was someone I would have formerly rejected or dismissed, but after shifting my perspective, I was open to seeing where things would go. Our first date was pleasant, and this time, there was a second date. And a third, and fourth…

We got married within 6 months of meeting.

The skills and strategies I implemented once I let go of my old beliefs, got serious, and invested in the process, worked for me, and I found the “One” rather quickly.

Since then, I’ve been teaching these same skills and strategies to my clients, both one-on-one and through seminars and workshops, and have seen them fall in love with men who adore them, desire them, and feel lucky to be sharing their lives.

This CAN and WILL work for you, too.

It just takes realizing the truth about men, online dating, and your expectations, and then learning the practical, easy skills that help you get noticed, meet the right man and get his attention.

Introducing From Online to In-Love — A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Love After 40

Isn’t it time for you to take a fresh look at online dating as the powerful tool that it is?

Whether you’ve been online for years or haven’t ventured online yet…

Whether you are newly single or widowed, or have been single for years (like I was), my wish is for you to see this tool for what it is:

The very best way for women over 40 to connect with grownup men who share their vision for a relationship, meet the one man who will adore them and want to share a life with them.

It can be a powerful tool for you, too, but only if you have the right mindset, approach and practical skills that makes it possible.

That’s where my online video program, From Online to In-Love: A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Love After 40, comes in.

I developed this program after more than a decade of teaching these skills and perspectives to literally thousands of women—some as young as 40 and some well into their 70s.

These are women, who, like you, were either disillusioned or disappointed with the complexities and frustrations of online dating. Maybe they were afraid to try it because they heard horror stories from women who had been online and were doing it wrong (and therefore were getting bad results).

Or, had never tried online dating. Or had recently divorced or widowed and were back in the dating world for the first time in decades.

I offer tools, skills and perspectives that are specifically tailored to address the unique challenges of online dating for women after the age of 40.

You’ll learn the truth about grownup men, what they really want, and how to find and attract the “good” ones that can make wonderful partners.

Grownup men are totally different than what you remember from your younger days and from the guys you might have been picking and dating recently.

I’ll teach you about specific age and gender differences not even on your radar, which will help you stand out from other women online—because you’ll communicate with men in a way that resonates with them.

You’ll come to understand that you need not change who you are or give up where you want to live in order to have that soul-satisfying relationship—because I’ll show you how to set clear boundaries with men who live too far away, aren’t a good fit, or are just looking for a “hook up”.

Your anxiety over the “dangers” of online dating will disappear after you get the facts and learn how to easily and quickly spot scammers and “fake” accounts that especially target older women. No more getting sucked in by flattery and fantasy, only to be taken advantage of, just because you’re a certain age or financially more established.

I’ll show you specific strategies to write a magnetic profile your perfect guy won’t be able to resist, and how to scan men’s profiles for dealbreakers and red flags, as well as “diamonds in the rough”.

You’ll open your eyes to the possibilities that you never saw before, and you’ll be so pleasantly surprised to learn how many great men there are out there that you dismissed before, for the wrong reasons.

I’ll show you how to take charge of your online dating experience, instead of just sitting around waiting and waiting…and getting no action. There’s a special way to do this without seeming needy, desperate or “chasing” men…but it’s so alluring to the right man.

You’ll start to feel hopeful, confident and competent in the realm of online dating.

And when your light bulb goes on (and it will!) you’re going to be stunned at how simple it is and how many good men are looking to be a woman’s great grownup partner, and will show up for you AND turn you on. (I mean you need a guy you want to kiss, right?)

I’m talking about the men who are passing you by right now. Or the ones you fantasize about meeting, if only you had the nerve to get online.

No more “online dating sucks.”

No more “there are no good men” mantra for you, sister.

This new INFORMATION, this new TRUTH and these new SKILLS will set you free…and get you the meaningful relationship you want.

You’re going to know how to take the shortcut through the online dating maze, and avoid the pitfalls that 99% of women endure…because they don’t know what YOU are going to know.

No more avoiding or hiding from this modern dating tool, which is your best chance at meeting someone.

Every day will be just one enjoyable step closer to your ultimate goal…a lifetime of love with a man who will light you up, have your back and add a new dimension of joy to your life.

Here’s What Else You’ll Learn In This Eye-Opening, Step-by-Step Program:

  • The 6 truths about men and online dating that most women don’t know, don’t believe, or don’t understand, and how these truths can transform your expectations about dating online.
  • How to compose a profile that will attract the right men, while discreetly sending a “message” to the wrong men to pass you by.
  • One of the most powerful skills I teach when it comes to online dating for women over 40, and how this ONE SKILL can catapult your success with finding your One Special Man.
  • How online dating algorithms affect the amount of exposure and “likes” your profile gets and the single most effective strategy for keeping your profile in the eyes of the men you want to meet.
  • How to handle a situation where a man you’ve written doesn’t respond, responds but doesn’t initiate a meeting, or starts messaging you but then disappears—so that you don’t lose your sanity or confidence.
  • A fun, revealing writing exercise that will help you express yourself in a way that attracts men to your profile, and will weed out the men who aren’t right for you.
  • A specific 5-step action plan for getting online if you’re just getting started OR if you’re already online but aren’t getting any quality responses.
  • Exactly what to say if a man keeps wanting to know about your personal relationship history if you’re not ready to disclose the whole truth, so he’s intrigued but respects your boundaries.
  • The one word mantra that can help you deal with men who don’t write back, act weird, or say inappropriate things, so you can feel confident and not waste your time on jerks.
  • The 3 principles of online dating that will help you stay motivated and inspired, no matter what bad experiences you’ve had with online dating and how hopeless you feel now.
  • The 4 perspectives on rejection that can make you feel instantly better when a guy ghosts you, doesn’t answer your email, tells you that you’re not his “type”, or doesn’t call when he says he will.
  • The do’s and don’ts of profile photos—especially if you feel self-conscious about your looks or body—and the one “pro” tip that can transform your entire experience of online dating.
  • How to avoid one of the most common mistakes both men AND women make in their online profiles.
  • How to find a type of grown-up man who has the capacity to be a great life partner—his strengths, his values and his vision for what he wants his life to be like—and how you can use this list of specific criteria to help you find that kind of man.
  • The secret insight into what grownup quality men want from relationships, and how to use this insight to attract this kind of man using what you say in your profile.
  • How to communicate your deal breakers in your profile without coming across as bitter or difficult to please, or boring potential mates. (HINT: If you’re listing qualities such as honesty or sense of humor as a must-have, you’re doing it wrong).
  • How to exponentially increase your opportunity to meet wonderful men by eliminating 2 common deal breakers from your list.
  • The 4 qualities a quality man is looking for in a woman when he’s browsing profiles online, and how you can make sure your profile gets his attention immediately.
  • How to phrase your likes, hobbies and values in your online profile in “manspeak”— using words and phrases in a way that will get the right man’s attention and will compel him to get to know you better.
  • How to avoid “clichés” in your profile that turn men off, and rephrase your likes or dislikes in a way that reveals your values and personality and weed out the wrong men.
  • How to engage and grab his attention using the first sentence of your profile.
  • 2 things about yourself you should NEVER mention in your profile, even if they’re important to you.
  • How to vet a man by looking for certain key things in his profile to know if he’s worth emailing or responding to.
  • The 1 pitfall women commonly fall into with online dating because they don’t understand the psychology of older men, and how to avoid it.
  • 5 do’s and don’ts on what to include (or not) about yourself if you’re using a dating app.
  • A recipe for writing your first email that maximizes the chances that he’ll want to write you back, and the common mistakes many women make with emails that make him click the delete button.
  • The tell-tale signs that he’s a scammer or unavailable, and what to do when you come across this kind of message.
  • What 3 things to look for in a man’s profile that increases the chances you’ll find a great man you may have otherwise overlooked.
  • A magic but simple 3-step communication tip for asking a man to give you what you want—whether it’s to reschedule a date, meet somewhere specific or ask you out again, that comes across as kind, direct and confident.
  • 8 red flags that tell you that you’re dealing with a jerk, narcissist, liar, scammer or a man with a hidden agenda, and how to spot these flags fast, so you don’t waste your time or endanger yourself.
  • The #1 thing that trips up smart women when scanning men’s profiles that keep them from connecting with potentially amazing partners.

From Online to In-Love is both a practical “how-to” program on how to navigate online dating AND a deep dive into your personal obstacles, so you can reframe your approach and start having fun and meeting great men.

You’ll get tips and advice on:
  • How to compose your profile so it’ll weed out all the men you don’t want, and attract the ones you do want
  • Identifying the deal breakers that won’t break your mojo with online dating
  • Re-framing long-held beliefs and assumptions that are blocking you from love
  • The do’s and don’ts of online communication with quality, mature men
  • Posting a profile photo that’s guaranteed to get you noticed, even if you aren’t a “model” type
  • What men past a certain age are looking for before they’ll respond to your message or ask you to meet
  • How mature men are different (and better!) than the boys you used to date (yay!). This will help you have realistic expectations and make more meaningful connections with the men you meet online and offline.
  • And much more

You’ll also receive ongoing support and inspirations through our Free Flourish Newsletter. It’s packed with advice, insights and practical strategies from our curated community of experts.

Here’s specifically how this program is structured and what you’ll be learning:

Getting Started Module

Getting Started Module

  • The big “aha!” that led me to finding my husband when I was 47
  • The 5 keys that will help you get the most out of this program
  • The mindset that will elevate your chances of finding Mr. I Love You online, and how to manage any negative feelings that keep you from getting back “out there” with online dating
Module 1

Module 1

Set Yourself Up for Success

  • The attributes and qualities that will set you up for success with online dating, so you can have fun and stay motivated
  • How to avoid the common disappointments by setting realistic expectations and defining what online dating IS and IS NOT
  • A mental tool that will keep you confident, sane and moving forward with online dating, so you don’t give up too soon or let it overwhelm you
  • The 4 strategies to reject online rejection, so you can keep your self-esteem intact and enjoy online dating until you connect with your true, forever love
  • An exercise that will serve as a powerful reminder that you already have what it takes to be successful online
Module 2

Module 2

Choose Your Online Dating Technology

  • The unique benefits and drawbacks of using online dating sites versus dating apps, and help determining which one is right for your personality, lifestyle, and personal preferences
  • The 3 key decisions you’ll have to make before you even set up an online dating account, and how these decisions will start you off on the right track from the beginning
  • The safety and other features you should definitely use, and the ones you should just say “no” to
  • The types of contacts men will make that you should NEVER ignore, and why your assumptions about these forms of contact may NOT be accurate
Module 3

Module 3

Attracting the Quality Men You Want to Meet

  • How to make the words you use in your profile relatable to kind, confident men who are looking for a lifetime partnership (because it really doesn’t matter what your girlfriends think!)
  • How to get past the big mistakes that most women make so you stand out and get attention from the right type of men
  • How to express yourself meaningfully in your profile in a way that helps men feel compelled to want to know more about you
  • How using “nuggets” of information about yourself and what you’re looking for attracts the men you want, and kindly compels the wrong men to pass you by
  • How to phrase your deal breakers in a way that doesn’t accidentally turn off the men who have so much potential to be right for you
  • Photo do’s and don’ts that show your beauty inside and out (and the truth about what men are looking for in your pics)
Module 4

Module 4

What the Men You Want, Want: Getting to Know the Quality, Grownup Man

  • What mature, commitment-minded men are looking for as they search online, as they date, and as they choose their lifetime partner
  • The reason you have (what seems like) a great date and he never calls, and how to avoid that ever happening again
  • How to bring out the best in a grownup, good man
  • How to recognize mature, good guys online, and tips and strategies to help you attract them, relate to them, and get to know—and appreciate—them
Module 5

Module 5

Ace Your Online Connection So You Get Dates with the RIGHT Men

  • The “recipe” for writing an email that gets opened and gets a response from the right men (even if his mailbox is full)
  • How to guide your online conversations in a way that leads to “real” dates so you don’t get stuck with penpals
  • The silly things good men do that you should ignore or overlook so you don’t miss men with great potential
  • How to spot scammers, unavailable men and time-wasters and the one word that helps you deal with them without wasting your time or emotional energy
  • Common communication traps that can trip you up and how to avoid them
  • How to stay safe by sharing the right information at the right time
Module 6

Module 6

Uncover the Hidden Gems: Man-Shopping Grownup Style

  • In this module, I’ll get online and we’ll look at real profiles, real dating sites, and real men, and I’ll give you my best advice on what to look for, what to ignore, and how to “interpret” a man’s profile for the diamond in the rough
Module 7

Module 7

Success Steps and Plans

  • Strategies and advice that will help you avoid the predictable pitfalls you may encounter throughout your online dating journey
  • The 5 essential steps you need to take before getting online
  • Creating an action plan that gets you moving in the right direction…toward that man who will happily share your life

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You CAN find a good man online at this stage of your life, and it’s much easier than you ever thought possible. You’ll feel excited about the idea of getting online (again, or for the first time) and trying out your new profile. You’ll start to see online dating it for what it is: a powerful tool for meeting eligible men, but not actual “dating”. This means you’ll already feel a lot less bothered by what you used to perceive as “blow offs” or rejection.

If, at the end of the 7 days, you decide this program isn’t right for you for any reason, simply let me know and I’ll refund your investment in FULL, no questions, no hassle. This is my promise: You’ll appreciate the value this course can bring you (after you commit to the time it takes to complete it, get online, and start putting the strategies into practice) or I will refund your money in full within 7 days of your purchase.

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Learn How to Have Fun, Feel Safe, and Take Control of Your Online Experience… and Finally Find Your Special Guy

From Online to In-Love isn’t just about using the internet to find love. It’s about getting in touch with your best and true self, including what you have to offer, the kind of man you really want, and the relationship you envision for your future.

It’s about being unabashedly and unapologetically real—without hiding, pretending, or contorting yourself in order to impress a man you don’t even know.

It’s learning that loving yourself as a woman and taking care of yourself is the way to find a good man that deserves you.

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It’s about ridding yourself of old and no-longer-true beliefs about yourself and men. As I say: “Thank goodness we’re not 18 anymore!” It feels so empowering to have life experience, maturity, and wisdom borne of struggle and achievement.

You see, online dating doesn’t have to feel confusing and overwhelming, once you learn the in’s and outs. Dating past the age of 40 can be about having fun, feeling safe, confident, in control— because you are growing, learning new things, and making better choices.

Here’s something to take away, if nothing else: You have the same life skills, knowledge, traits, etc. that led you to success in other parts of your life, so there’s no reason to think you won’t have that with online dating. You already have all the gumption and resilience you need to be successful at this…it just takes getting over your limiting beliefs and then applying some easy-to-learn practical skills to the process.

Do yourself a HUGE favor right now. Give yourself permission to want and need a fabulous man in your life, because you deserve love and you deserve to be happy. Tell yourself it’s not a weakness to admit you need a little bit of help, and accept that help when it is offered.

You’re a strong, smart, amazing woman with so much love to give. The right man will thank his lucky stars to have found you.

Love,

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